Yes ,it is helpful,considering the reason that the things to be arranged is between you and him alone and to the fact that it is both of you who fully undesrtood tha issues that went wrong,then before allowing anyone get involve into the matters first discuss with the one who is directly involve and achieve for reconcillation between you.

If does not succeed then follow as the SCRIPTURE thought.

The Pharisees are Spiritually Blind;for they could not interpret or understand what Jesus Christ is doing and ministering to the Israelites.Sign and wonders has been witnessed by these pharisees but still they can not accept that Jesus miraculous deeds is from the power of the Holy God,for the Father to be glorified.