If I had a one-on-one meal with Jesus, given the fact that i have never known what parental love is, and yet i believe that He is my father, i would discuss only love and affection non-stop. He is love and that is what i have not experienced at all in my life and so i would spend the whole meal time asking Him to tell me how  much He loves me and enjoying every moment of it. i would inturn tell Him how much i love him despite my shortcomings.

if i were to get intoa meal with Jesus i would ask him to teach me how to become his intimate friend and how to win his favour and always stay close to him.

i think being intimate according to Jesus is to obey his will and abide by it.