The bible tells us that God sent only son to die in order for us to be saved.

In most instances Jesus would get annoyed and he would act like human act when provoked, and there is no other way he could have acted. He liked his fathers will to be done and most of the time people were not doing such.. So he was not inciting his death but he was redeeming the people and bring them to order. His death came as a fulfillment of his fathers love for us