a child loves with its soul, it looks up to its perants, like we should looks up to our heavenly father

No, firstly Jesus came to show the right way of living.  Jesus accuses the leaders that does not mean He was inciting His own death. He was just telling what was wrong so that even when judgement day comes, they will konw that they were warned and were told what they did was wrong. 

All that Jesus did, He did not do it to incite His own death but to fulfill the scriptures.