Its just very negative. So much pain, unforgiveness, hopelessness, disillusionment, rejection, anger, and hatred is often released and generated. It encourages loose morals, weak commitments, distrust, weak bonds, and discourages true, persevering, unconditional, God-like love. Its divides the family structure and throws communities into confusion and chaos, promoting animal-like qualities in us. God intends us to live by conviction, and not by preference.