We do not know why people do .or ....say certain things .........

when they can explain themselves they will

Put your selves in others shoes before you

condemn , critisize them .............give them the benefit of the doubt ....& if u really care be there for them ....there may be more to it that you know or can see........Love & Friendship are not selfish ...& withstands the test of time! Have Faith ! But Do not Judge !