The intimate relationship with God is the key factor to be a lowly people. How?

jesus said " Leave everything and take your cross and follow me "( Luke 14:25-27,33. )

when we leave everything, we will be alone with jesus which is intimate relationship!, then comes 1 peter 2:9 which says show Gods attitudes! so, to be a lowly people means, so obedient,and be changed person. for ex: before time i was an abusive and a acusive person, but now i am a BEARING PERSON. to bear means, that is Lord Jesus! If iam doing or showing or bearing that same attitudes of the lord is called lowly. Jesus said If anyone of you want to become great, be a servant of all. that much of lowly. Real meaning is BE A DOORMAT.Let every person may use that DOORMAT. which is lowly. thank you.